Pamela Ann "Pam" Dashiell (Gray) was born on February 4, 1948 to Richard and Erma Gray in Chicago, IL. In 1967, Pam met Robert "Bob" at the University of Illinois. Robert and Pam married in 1968, and went on to have 3 children, Amy Simonini (John), Matthew Dashiell (Eileen), and David Dashiell (Sonja). Pam was "Grammy" to 10 grandchildren: Andrew, Alexander, Jacob, Alayna, Ashlyn, Katie, Adam, Abby, Jack, and Avalyn. Pamela was preceded in death by her husband, Robert. She is survived by her four siblings, Denman Gray (Barb), Debra Bartman (Bob), Shari Padgett (Russell), and Victoria Ross (Francois). Services will be held at Matthew's Mortuary on Tuesday, March 26th, 2024. The family will be receiving visitors at 11:30 AM, with the celebration of life service to follow at 1:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Beta Sigma Phi general fund, an organization that she was a member of for over 5 decades https://bspinternational.org/home.php Pamela will be dearly missed by all those who knew and loved her. May she rest in peace.